ALLENTOWN, Pa. – When we send kids off to college, many times we say they need to “find themselves” but researchers and authors say some of us spend a lifetime trying to find out who we really are. It’s called the search for our authentic selves. It sounds easy enough right? We know who we are don’t we? But some researchers say our true selves can sometimes get buried under the to do lists and the different roles we play in our busy lives and we have to really dial in. We asked Lehigh Valley women for their reflections in our Wisdom Wednesday segment.